✨ anxious babes unite! ✨ choose better, healthier partners ✨ date more calmly, so you can create the best relationship of your life ✨ fix your "picker" ✨ heal anxious attachment ✨

Stop settling for situationships & deadbeat dates 💔

—so you can find the actual love of your life instead 💖

Helping anxious daters stop over-working for love & date with more calm & confidence

Start dating like a MFin' dreamboat

Stop settling for situationships & deadbeat dates

—so you can find the actual love of your life instead

Even if you're anxious, insecure, or have a history of making "bad picks"—I've got you.

Start dating like a MFin' dreamboat

You're soooo tired of giving your all to try to prove your worth to a date or partner,

only to have them pull away or ghost you.

I get it. I've been there too. What I know now is:

You don't need to work harder to convince someone to date you. 💔

You need to learn to filter out the deadbeats who won't commit or meet your needs,

**and filter in the dreamboats who will.**

This is what we do at Sweet Spot Dating Lab, all while healing anxious tendencies that show up in dating and relationships.

So you can finally date with the security and confidence that will attract a healthy partner who wants to invest in you too.

Here's how ⇊

✨ Offerings ✨

Reclaim your love life

Date with more ease, self-trust, and confidence that you’ll find your dream partner.

No more settling for situationships or relationships where you feel anxious, confused, or like the only one holding the connection together.

Includes:

12 weeks of support
9x 1-on-1 50-minute sessions
In-between session support via text or voice message

Normally $1497, free if you win a scholarship (1 available)

Apply now

🛥️ Date like a

Dreamboat 🛥️

Stop falling for duds so you can find your person instead.

You'll stop wasting time on people who won't commit, won't put in the energy and effort you do, and learn how to find the love of your life by:

fixing your "picker"
cutting through the superficial hype of a hot date

️‍🔥Hot Boundaries🔥

Coming soon.

The essential boundaries that will help you find a dream partner without getting stuck in situationships or exhausting, frustrating dynamics.

Sign up to be notified when doors open:

🛥️ Date like a

Dreamboat 🛥️

Stop falling for duds so you can find your person instead.

You'll stop wasting time on people who won't commit, won't put in the energy and effort you do, and learn how to find the love of your life.

️‍🔥 Hot Boundaries 🔥

Mini-course coming soon.

The essential boundaries that will help you find a dream partner without getting stuck in situationships or exhausting, frustrating dynamics.

Sign up to be notified when doors open:

Love Notes

a.k.a. the blog

Start here if you have no idea how you ended up here, with no clue how to date without getting chewed up and spit out by the apps and/or all the creeps out there.Let this be the start of a beautiful relationship.

If you're ready to date more securely, I've got you, babe.

Hi, I'm Zinta!

I'm a psychotherapist-turned-dating coach who's just a little bit obsessed with attachment science. I support anxious daters on their journey to becoming more secure so they can date with more ease, self-trust, and the confidence that they’ll find their dream partner.

No more settling for situationships or relationships where they feel anxious, confused, or like the only one holding the connection together.

As a psychotherapist, I’ve spent years understanding anxious attachment and helping people move out of its grip so they can build truly secure relationships.

Reading and learning about attachment is not enough to change what's happening.

You need to go deeper so you can heal the core wounds and nervous system responses that contribute to your insecurity in dating and relationships.

Healing anxious attachment comes down to:

healing past relational wounds
rewiring beliefs about yourself, others, and relationships
learning to be with your emotions and nervous system in more supportive ways
consciously choosing differently as you date and deepen relationships

My special blend of attachment work, practical dating skills, transformative exercises, and nervous system regulation can target multiple of these factors at once to help you date better, choose healthier partners, and become the secure babe you long to be.